Bathe I'M the MOTHER

Bathe I'M the MOTHER of Some women consider women as managers of the task more at home without having to mess around the kitchen and taking care of affairs that deserves more performed by the subordinate, aka maid or baby-sitting. Self-actualization and social roles become more mainstream. On the other hand, not least akhwat which remain "steadfast" and proud of the bustle surrounding the Affairs of this kitchen and baby strollers. They are quite satisfied with the return to heaven is about to sink his face in the smoke "sauna" mazola (cooking oil) and berparfumkan diaper scent.

I don't want to discuss shortcomings and advantages of both sides of this. As I have written in advance. I only want to speak about a friend of mine.

Call it the name Rani.

During the lecture he is brilliant and it has idealism brained. Since its inception, the attitude and the concept itself was clear: to grab the best, be it in the areas of academic and professional fields to be investments. When the University sent us to study international law at the University of Utrecht, in his flower tulip, lucky Rani continued to tread. While I prefer complete, medical education and part with the ins and outs of the law and legislation.

Lucky also, Rani Gets an "equivalent" Companion with him, equally accomplished, despite the different professions.

Alifya, fruit of their love was born when Rani had just appointed Diplomat to coincide with the Staff tuntasnya Rani's husband grabbed PhD. When Alif, a call to her son was 6 months old, the flurry of increasingly Veera craze. Flying from one frequency to another city and town from one country to another further rises.

I was once asked, "is it not the Alif is too small to be left?"

With alacrity Rani replied: "I've been preparing everything.

Everything is ok. " And it's downright he prove it. The care and attention to her daughter although more powers to the baby sitter is downright awesome. Alif grows into a lively, intelligent child and understanding. Grandfather of his grandmother always pump pride to sheer puppet that's about the grandson ibu-bapaknya.

"Ayah-bunda Alif Alif Contohlah that grows up." So my grandmother, her mother always Alif Rani disela-sela fairy tale towards her to speak. Not wrong indeed. Who wouldn't want to have a child or grandchild who succeed in the academic field and his work. When Alif is 3 years old, Rani tells if ask adik. Alif At that time, She and her husband explains that bustle with full compassion they have not made it possible to present a younger create Alif. Again this little boy "can understand" the parents.

Awesome indeed. Alif is not the type of kid who likes to whine. If his parents came home late, she rarely ngambek. The story of Rani, Alif is always welcomed with great joy. Even call it little angels Rani. It is a happy family, I thought. Although both parents busy, Alif lovingly keep growing. Secretly I wanted a little heart like a child Alif.

One day, before leaving for the Office, Rani for some reason refused washed baby-Alif sitternya. "Wanted Alif mandikan mother." He Said. The Rani of Karuan just seconds into the second time very taken into account, to be riled. Her husband also persuaded not to deselect Alif want to shower with Mien, baby-tante sitternya. These are recurring until almost a week, "Mother, mandikan Alif?" so every morning. Rani and her husband thought, possibly due to being in a transitional period for Alif to school would rather ask for attention.

One afternoon, I was shocked, the telephone Mien baby sitter. "Bu doctors, Alif deman and his convulsed, Now in an Emergency". After flying to the ER I went speeding. But it was too late. God already had other plans. Alif, si Malaikan a small trigger called the owner.

Rani, beloved, when allmighty God told his new Office was inaugurated, heavy shock. Upon arrival at the House, the only desire she is bathing her child. And indeed he did, though after the small body lay stiff. "This mother, Lif. Mother mandikan Alif. " He said softly, yet very poignant.

When tanah merah have buried the bodies of the little one, we're still standing sculpting. Many times, my best friend who stubbornly Rani said, "This is destiny, yeah right? I was next to them or across the ocean, when it's time, he goes too right? ". I just listened silently.

"This is the consequence of a choice." he said again, remain unruly and strong.

A moment of silence. Twilight breeze aromas blend in Cambodia. Rani suddenly downcast.
"I'm his mother!" cried then, "Build your Lif. Our Lady wants mandikan Alif. Give the opportunity the mother again, Lif ". Moans were so wrenching. Seconds later he cross-legged while scavenging tanah merah? ...

Again, I don't want to discuss viewpoints husband wife sharing tasks. It's just that, if our little one too bergelayut: "Mandikan I, Mother." Will we refuse? Or wait until it is too late?

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